Showing posts with label crazy. Show all posts
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Thursday, April 11, 2013

Nursing School 101 Series: Part 2


Now for 'Part 2' of our nursing school series. So get last weeks notes out, time for this weeks lessson!



I took the GRE

(Please make sure and read my post about preparing for the GRE and how I studied here!)

On my list of programs were 8 community college or AA degree programs and one MSN (Masters of Science in Nursing) program. The requirements for the MSN program meant I had to do more than just the one to three page applications I had been encountering. I had to write a personal statement. I needed 3 letters of recommendations- either academic or professional (start building relationships if you already haven’t; may come in handy with scholarships as well). I also needed to take the GRE. The GRE is general knowledge test used to gauge if you are a graduate school prepared student. There are 3 sections: verbal, quantitative and analytical writing and it cost $185. The test usually takes about 4 hours (I finished in a little less than that). You should begin preparing for the GRE months in advance. I think 3 months of study time is a good amount, especially if you can’t afford a prep class. I did self stuffy. I found it hard to stay disciplined and study when I know I wanted to do other things…like not study and watch TV, but if you want a competitive score, you’ll press through it. The verbal and quantitative sections are out of 170 points. The lowest you can get would be 130. The analytical writing is an average score out of 6. There are two 30 minute timed essays you must write and each of those is out of 6. ETS (the company who administers the test) then takes both of the scores and averages them. The score you receive is the combination of your two individual essay scores. If you take the computerized test, you get your verbal and quantitative scores immediately. You would need to wait a few weeks for the essay scores. ETS does administer the test paper and pencil style, but it’s only 4 times a year. I found that there are more places giving the computer based test, which helps fit into anyone’s schedule. I did pretty well on the GRE. My math score could have been higher (womp womp), but math has never been my strong subject. For an inconsistent self study, I’m proud of myself.

The MSN Route
Since I did apply to a MSN program, I had to hunt down people to write me letters of recommendation. Let me tell you something about myself. I am not my teacher’s favorite. I rarely even speak to my teachers. So this was something of intermediate difficulty. I ended up asking an old boss, my microbiology teacher (after a friend who took the same class with the same teacher suggested I do so) and my 5th grade teacher. Yes, my 5th grade teacher. I found trying to practically sell myself to the school in my personal statement a little uncomfortable. I’m not good at the interview question, “So tell me some strengths and weaknesses you have.” I wanted to write, “I just want to be a nurse, isn't that good enough?” You and I both know it’s not, so I came up with 2 pages, single spaced as to why they should select me. My application fee was $100. It hurt me to give them that money, especially since I just spent all that money on the GRE and transcripts, but I pressed on. I submitted my application March 1st. Acceptance letters are being mailed starting April 1st. Let’s just say I am already a wreck!

UPDATE!!!
Unfortunately, I have not received my letter yet! Due to a change in policy I am assuming, I must wait until my last in progress prerequisite is complete...then my application will be reviewed. Now, when I went to the information, I was told they would  review applications with in progress items, but hey, I'm not in charge here. SO AGAIN...we wait!

Websites that might be helpful:

www.ets.org
www.allnursingschools.com
www.amazon.com (find your study books here, much cheaper!)


Hope this lesson was helpful. Until next week...

xoxo,
Amanda

Thursday, March 28, 2013

My Real Life ABG Moment...Smh


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My Real Life ABG Moment….


That awkward moment he walks in with his wife…yeah, that part! Now before you start judging me,let me explain…
Awkward Girls Club


I’m out with my friends at a nice wine bar in Santa Monica (you       know, that one) a few Fridays back. Happy hour was almost over, so  I ordered both my drinks at the same time (probably the beginning of this awkward memory). I ordered one glass of pinot grigio and a glass of sangria. Now I am a ‘light weight’ by most people’s standards, but I also had not eaten much or drank a lot of water that day, so the stage is set for something spectacularly hilarious to happen at my expense. I was sitting next to the door, but couldn't see the people coming through the door. Once my friends got there, we moved to a more open table...me sitting directly facing the door (second key part to this truly, wonderfully awkward social mishap). As I finish my glass of wine, I am a tad…loopy one could say. As my friends and I chat about our college years and trot down memory lane, we begin to discuss ‘said’ person (the power of the tongue y’all- I must have spoken him into existence…my existence).


Now, let me tell you about ‘said’ man. This guy has truly made a life for himself. He has really become quite successful. And frankly, it’s just not fair! I liked him when he didn’t have nothing! When he was bumming it around campus and rocking braids; when camouflage was the new hot thing. Now someone else is experiencing the life I used to fantasize we would have- house, cars, trips, cash, happiness. He’s wearing designers I have never heard of or know how to pronounce. No one understood why I liked him so much. It’s not like he’s Idris Elba. Nevertheless, he makes my heart race and when friends would see him on campus, they would come up to me later and say, ‘I saw your boo!’. This year will be our ‘ten year anniversary’. 10 years ago this summer we met. Even though I felt this way and I could see he had feelings for me, we never dated…EVER! We have even discussed it ad nauseum. There were so many chances for us to at least see what could have been, but nothing. I know I am one to fall for a guy with potential, and ONLY potential. But with this one, I should have seen it and stuck with it, because it would have paid off in the long run. I can be honest and say I experience a little bit of hateration when I think about it. Secretly hoping I will be second wife material (I know, I know. I need professional help). But after I also that to pass, I really am happy for him…and her…I guess. (He’s still working on me).

So here I am, on my second drink (I should probably have slowed down or ate something by this point) and I see a woman who looks ALL TOO FAMILIAR walking into the establishment I am currently spilling my guts in. My eyes are fixated on the door. I can’t turn away. It can’t be her, because that would be just too weird. A woman walks in behind her (reinforcements just in case I get out of hand I am sure…she heard me talking about her man), then a man, then it happens…I see the outline of ears and glasses that make me automatically weak in the knees. OOOOOHHHHHH NOOOOOOO!!! SERIOUSLY?! FOR REAL?!!?! 
 

I start saying (too loud I might add) “Oh my God! Oh my God! Oh my God!”. I’m flustered, I’m shocked…I’m now staring at the table and fumbling for my phone so I have something to occupy these emotions I’m feeling. My friends are busting a gut at this point. I feel like I am going to cry (I am almost done with my second drink. I should have stopped while I was ahead). He actually comes over and says hello. I’m startled. I didn’t see him walking over toward us. I was in a fog. They sit in their VIP section and more people started to come. I guess they were having a party. Good for them! (Can you sense the sarcasm? I hope so).

We finish up our night, as I dodge going to the restroom as people from that party go. I’m not trying to have my first fight in a wine bar restroom. We start walking to our cars and he’s outside, talking to someone. No goodbyes are exchanged, no looks. I just leave. I go home and laugh at the awkwardness of the situation. You may ask why it’s so awkward. You ask very great questions. Ever know someone still has feelings for you? Wonder why your wedding invitation never came in the mail when you thought you were so close? Ever wonder why he still makes slick comments about the guys you date or talk to and tells me that he has tenure (you know, because of the whole 10 year thing? He’s cute like that…that sucka!)? 

Yeah…that part.

Oh, and this….the text I got the next morning: “Awkward moments in the theme for this weekend.”

              

              

*Shout out to Issa Rae! She has created a world with her show "The Misadventures of Awkward Black Girl" I finally feel like accurately articulates my life's happenings! She has really made my life a more pleasurable, yet still awkward..thing! Haha :)